Tuesday, September 28, 2010

IVF - Day 30 - sad news


I just got the phone call I have been dreading the last 24 hours. Our remaining 6 embryos were not good enough quality to freeze. They weren't even borderline to risk it. Only a few of them made it to Blastocyst stage by today. 

I didn't think it would effect me this way but having frozen embryos was kind of our hope for future children; without having to do a full blown IVF cycle again. Now that is gone too. Why does every step of this journey have to be so damned bumpy? Now I have to figure out a way to tell the hubby, he will be crushed.

5 lovely notes from friends:

Kelly September 28, 2010 at 12:56 PM  

Erin, I'm so sorry. I know that has to be difficult. Hopefully you have 2 little ones tucking in for a long journey right now. I will be thinking about you.

Katie September 28, 2010 at 1:29 PM  

I'm so sorry. I know you are disappointed. I truly hope that the two little embabies inside of you right now are growing big and strong.

(((hugs)))

Jessica September 28, 2010 at 1:55 PM  

Oh Erin....I am so sorry!! Hoping those two embies are snuggling in tight right now!! ((HUGS))

Life in the UK September 29, 2010 at 8:14 AM  

I am so sorry... I know how your feeling. I am still trying to cope with the news I got on Sunday about ours... It's not easy and I am so sorry your going through this too... I have been talking to the two in my belly and telling them to hang on and that we love them. I take my test next Wednesday to find out. I am praying it is not another heartbreaking news. But as of now... Your a mom and your pregnant. So keep telling yourself that and hold on to that hope...
Praying for you, Love, Laura

T September 30, 2010 at 8:45 AM  

I am so very sorry Erin. This IVF journey can be so heartbreaking. I am praying that the embryos inside were the cream of the crop.

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